Relationship

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the 701th post...

opps.. totally didn't realize that it is already nearly a month ago since I last blogged; abt AC 2010...

since this is the 701th post, let me blog about something a tad more interesting. (ya right, just an excuse lah. HAHA!)

Okay, great... i do not know how to start... but still, i know i got to start it somewhere.

4 to 5 years back when Jo was around my age now shared with me that the topic of conversations is surrounded with the word 'Relationship'.

Being an innocent young girl (which i self declared to be, still, HAHAH!!), i didn't know or feel the impact until i actually experience it.

Friends will start to ask 'when, when'? or 'Jas, what kinda guy are you looking for', etc etc.

Honestly speaking, i was almost totally clueless when these questions was first posted to me...

and it was then that i started to think of the 'criteria' I look for in a BF/partner.

Let me now share some of them... :)

1) He must be in CHC, someone who is so on fire for God and has this love and passion for people; always thirsting for more.

2) Like what i always mention, he must be someone who sees beyond my physical being. Someone who can accept me just the way i am, with eczema and that i don't walk quite normally due to this fall when i was young. This is one of the very important factors to me. Imagine you having a GF where occasion stares are no surprise... are you able to take it being my BF and etc.

3) He is someone who is not too 'D' and is 'C' (D.I.S.C is what i m referring to here BTW. hehe)

4) Call me an obasan but i doubt i will ever take the first step... cos esp to me, i think i really need the assurance that he really loves me. :S Wahaha...

5) Someone who knows how to carry himself well; in the way he talks, do things, handles things.

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Shall stop at 5 tho there are more. Nope, i am not in rush to get into R/S. Cos i know there is just time and seasons in life... for now, my focus is on work and furthering my studies. When it comes, it comes! :) Wahahha... I really agree with what Jian Feng shared with me... that in the different seasons of life, the thing we look in a woman/man changes. Though so, these five, are the main criteria.

Meanwhile, it is changing into a better me! In all aspects of my life... God, You mould and change me...