The Five Love Languages My primary love language is probably Quality Time with a secondary love language being Acts of Service . Complete set of results Quality Time: 9 Acts of Service: 7 Receiving Gifts: 7 Words of Affirmation: 6 Physical Touch: 1 Information Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others. Take the quiz